Graceful Beauty - Tips for Looking Good
Thank you so much papa Elmond for such an awesome privilege of teaching this timely matter that concerns us ladies. I do not take this opportunity for granted. Thank you Sir.
We are intentionally looking at a delicate theme, "How to Style Yourself and Look Like a Million Dollars."
Let me start by saying, “Beauty begins from the inside, beauty lies in the disposition of our heart.
Your beauty becomes obvious when you think right, live right, and love right. Your heart is the first place where your beauty is groomed. If you fill your heart with dirty thoughts it will impoverish your inner beauty.
Secondly, I want us to remember that we were "BEAUTIFULLY" created by God. That is to say that nothing is a mistake in our body. God is pleased with the way you smile. He is pleased with the way your stomach folds when you sit. Yes, He delights in the way your eyes twinkles.
And also my beautiful ladies, I must say that you don't need to depend on any man to make u feel beautiful. You've got all you need to be perfect
For the purpose of this teaching we are going to be having five segments which I have broken down for better understanding:
1. Self-Recognition and Self-Esteem
2. Whole personal Hygiene/Smells
3. Color combination
4. Hairdo
5. Modesty
SELF RECOGNITION AND ESTEEM
Ladies, please take heed to this; you are beautiful and the best of God's creation. You've got all it takes to look perfect. If we must appear presentable and precious as the Lord intends we must do a cleaning in our heart and correct the notions on how we look at ourselves. You must know for yourself that you are valued by God and you are the best of your kind. You are Quintessence. You are unique. You are God's perfect workpiece. You are an esteemed project in the hands of the Lord and except you know this, you will likely settle for less. You are beautiful. Echo that phrase, say “I AM BEAUTIFUL."
Now that you have reminded yourself of your beauty, the next time someone tells you "you are beautiful," you shouldn't feel shy about such a compliment because he person is only affirming what you already know. Never feel that you are lesser than anyone. You are unique in your own way. You are a Queen and do you know what Queens do; they RULE with their kings.
HYGIENE/SMELLS
We often hear this saying that cleanliness is next to Godliness right?
It’s a thing of concern that as beautiful as we ladies are we don't properly take good care of our bodies.
Do u know that the first gesture someone receives from you at first contact is your "COLOGNE"?
I can't overemphasize the importance of Neatness. How often do you take your bath, how often do you change your dress, how often do you use deodorant. Ladies can sometimes be a lot sweaty, so its important to keep hygiene.
1. Get a deodorant, it really don't have to be expensive. With as low as 200 naira you can get one.
2. Get a nice body spray or a mild perfume. You don't expect your body to smell the same after along busy, sunny, and stressful day but perfume will help. Make it a point of necessity to smell nice. I have a watchword when it comes to smell, I tell myself "precious why smell bad when you can smell nice?"
HAIRDO
Hair hygiene is also very important. In the hot weather, you are carrying one hairstyle for two months? Even if you don't braid your hair you should please try as much as possible to always wash your hair and make it presentable.
One secret – Guys don't like to see a particular hairdo for long. That is why you keep hearing "Babe don't you think you should change this hairstyle? It could be that it’s not just old, but it’s smelling and he wants you to do something about it.
You don't have to spend thousands of naira in making your hair, but how consistent are you in keeping it neat and clean. Please think about this.
COLOR COMBINATION
You mean at this age people still wear black skirt, white shirt, red head tie, red shoe, and a red bag?
Please, Queens, look around you and know the trend. If you can’t figure out, ask someone to guide you. But for the love of God don't wear rainbow oooo
Conclusively, let’s talk about Modesty In brief.
Please, ladies, we should not downgrade our bodies in quest of pleasing trends. I hear a slogan about "showing some skin." That’s not of God. No skin is worth exposing if only you know your worth and understand that you are a package, you are a present, and you are a gift and in course of event.
I notice that presents are usually "beautifully wrapped." You do too? So you have every reason to cover your future husband’s present – your bod, till its time for the unveiling.
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